Present shopping is both fun and stressful. Part of you feels happy to know you are getting things for other people and that they will enjoy receiving them and the other part of you feels obligated to not forget people and make sure you have something for everyone on your list. It is hard to be thoughtful, but not let that get in the way of at least getting something. Then there is the money that it costs. I helped my older sister buy some presents online yesterday since I get free shipping. I feel like I'm always advertising for free for Amazon, but with free shipping and no taxes, most of the time it is a great deal. I like buying things online.
Today is Friday and I'm very ready for the Holiday break. A lot of people will be off Monday on, but I'll be working on Monday and Tuesday. I decided to take Christmas Eve off and then my holiday begins. Not too bad, just two days of work when I get back. I'll probably use this weekend to fight the crowds and pick up presents to finish up my shopping.
So I was thinking the other day: So isn't saying "Happy Holidays" kind of like saying "good morning" to a person on their birthday?...they don't turn to you and tell you that you are waging a war on their birthday, but usually just say thank you. I get those Merry Christmas email forwards from family that act all offended at the use of Happy Holidays.
Pew Poll: "Incompetent" Word Most Associated With Bush I'm kind of surprised that "dishonest" and liar when down. Check out "Christian." Do you see that Mom?
I agree with this post : This encapsulates every frustration I've felt over the last eight years.
1. Republicans ask for the absurd, threaten nuclear/economic Armageddon if there's no action.
2. Democrats cower in fear.
3. We try to talk some sense into them.
4. We get scolded for being unserious, and wanting the terrorists to win/people to lose their jobs. 5. Democrats promise oversight!
6. We roll our eyes.
7. Democrats cave on every single point, but pretend to win anyway.
8. We wonder what we ever did to deserve this sorry bunch of representatives.
9. Republicans do whatever the hell they want.
10. Democrats pretend that no one could've ever predicted Republican outrages and express "outrage". Sometimes, they even write a sternly worded letter!
11. We make "no one could have foreseen" jokes and wonder what we ever did to deserve this sorry bunch of representatives.
12. Rinse, lather, repeat.
So you either tear your hair out and go mad at the rank idiocy of it all, or you laugh. And let me tell you, the number of times we've gone through this crap makes laughing about it increasingly difficult.
There seems to be so much much violence in Mexico over the drug trade. Mexico's Drug Wars Have Killed 7,000 In 2 Years. In reading more about this I learned that Mexico: 13,500 Police Didn't Finish Elementary School . Wow I have to say. What does it take to have to carry a gun then? I'll keep that in mind when I go visit on this break.
I got a Christmas bonus this year. I was very thankful because I was short on bills and I needed some help with the credit I'm racking up on presents. I'm not going overboard or probably even on board, but it is hard when you have such a large family. Either way, I was pretty blessed.
I want to talk about secret santa's. There are many forms of the tradition, sometimes you get just one gift and others you get multiple small gifts and then a big gift at the end. Most the problems encountered in early versions were fixed when they instituted prices for the gifts to avoid people spending too much or too little. Then people got more creative and started to use price ranges which I feel are better. For example, sometimes you have the person that will spend $10 and say well it was $20, but it was reduced, so I'm really getting you a $20 present and following the rules. I think that is messed up and this type of thinking just takes the whole spirit out of the exchange. I'm digressing. My main point of all this being, some people really put their hearts into this and go all out in thoughtfulness. Others, not so much. Some people are just lazy about it, giving gift cards or worse coffee mugs. If it is optional, why not just not play. If it is not optional, why not just try a little. I've heard so many horror stories that really turn people off what can be a really fun tradition.
Next time, white elephants and my view that 80% of the gifts should be comparable so that people are trading for more thing than just the top ones. Though I'm sure that is why they have a three times trade per gift rule usually.
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